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I am sports minded but not a fanatic (although baseball is very close). I do like to play golf and softball but never seem to find the time. I also enjoy bowling. I love the beach and sipping margarita's while the sun goes down. I enjoy all kinds of music (even some country). I love the mid 80's alternative stuff and I am a big Springsteen fan. What do you expect; I'm from NJ. I enjoy going out for nice dinners, having a bottle of wine and perhaps going to a club but I also like ordering some Chinese (the food, not the people) and then cuddling in bed while watching some old movies. My Kids, my family and my friends are very important to me...perhaps you fit in here, too. As you can tell (if you got this far), I try not to take things too seriously. Life is too short. But I do take the love of my children very seriously...and the love of a woman (that may sound corny but I couldn't think of another way to put it). Yes I am 43 but I really don't look it. Do I ?

Taurus

Average

5' 8 (1.73 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Divorced

Yes - Sometimes At Home

Not Sure

Lips

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

Brown

Bird, Gerbil Or Guinea Pig

College Degree

Full-time

Other

counselor

$15,000USD To $29,999USD

Alone, With Kid(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

Yes - Socially

Class Clown

Observant, Friendly, Comedic

Sports, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Family, Dining, Religion / Spirituality, Travel, Cooking

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

I guess the perfect date is one that leads to a second date. A nice relaxed atmosphere where we can be ourselves and not feel like everything we say is being scrutinized. Enjoy a nice meal and a bottle of wine (or a beer). I'm easy though and would be open to any suggestions. I also thought that I would like a real long first date but I am beginning to question that idea. perhaps a short "meet and greet" is better. This way we are not "stuck" on a 4 hour date if the other is not what we thought. Maybe an hour or two at the most and then we get to go home and evaluate the night and the person. If it's right...that 2nd date will be happening real soon.

skydiving

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Goofy

Christian

Once A Week

Middle Of The Road

...to get through it with as little damage as possible

Clever, Friendly, Goofy, Slapstick

News, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Family, Thriller

Rock, Pop, Folk

I Don't Like Reading

A nice relaxed atmosphere where we can be ourselves and not feel like everything we say is being scrutinized. Enjoy a nice meal and a bottle of wine (or a beer). I'm easy though and would be open to any suggestions.

Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

Let's see...what am I looking for? Well, a sense of humor is always a good place to start. I like to laugh and make those around me find the humor in themselves and in life. I use to say "you should probably look like Jennifer Anniston because as you can see, I look like Brad Pitt" but I guess now you should look like Angelina Jolie... Seriously, I do want to feel a physical attraction but so many of you don't post your pictures that I have had to look for other attractive qualities. I guess that's a good thing but a pic is a must before we meet. I am looking for someone who is as comfortable in a black evening gown as she is in a pair of cut-offs and one of my shirts. Someone who can sip champagne or chug a Coke (and burp). Someone who wants to enjoy life and not sweat the details or those things we have no control over. Mostly, I want to fall in love again...oops, did I say that?...well, isn't that why we are all here? I'm not looking to date the rest of my life. Can you imagi

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed